We have raised two generations of whiny, sissified, helpless, entitled children who have never been held responsible or accountable for their actions. We gave them certificates just for showing up and medals just for participating. We medicated them when they misbehaved and made excuses for them when they got into serious trouble. We failed to teach them to act like human beings. We didn't want to hurt their feelings. We failed to teach them how to get along and be responsible in the real world. It is coming back to haunt us. Karma is a bitch, they say...
failed to reprimand them. We failed to discipline them. We failed to
set standards for them. We failed to teach them right from wrong. We
failed to teach them that sometimes things won't go their way and we
failed to teach them how to
deal with their problems and work them out.
We have spent "their"
entire lives making things "right" with their teachers and their coaches
for them so that they would be able to play football on Friday night or soccer on Saturday morning,
even though they are failing whatever classes they may be taking these
Today's children go into the world with absolutely no skills
relating to recognizing and solving their problems. They have no idea
what it means to be responsible. They have no idea how to respect
themselves or others. We have solved all of their problems for them
all of their lives. Their reality is different than the reality that
you and I know...
They have never had to make a decision and they have never had to answer to any higher authority when they were wrong. We did all of that for them.
Our sons come to us and say that they really think they "feel" like a girl. We go to the ends of the earth to gain admission to the girls gym class and the girls potty for our pussified little boys.. Why don't we just tell them to get their head out of their ass and look in a mirror? If you have a dick and no tits, you're a boy. If you have tits and no dick, you aren't.
There will be times in life when your feelings will be hurt. Learn to deal with it without getting a gun and killing someone.
And we wonder why they kill people when they have
problems they can't deal with?